Have an easy romantic dinner at home with Spaghetti Carbonara For Two with bacon and cheese! Serve it with white wine and dessert for a stay-in date night.

Let’s take a poll. Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? If yes, do you eat out or stay in?

I’ve always been single for the holiday for as long as I can remember, so I never had to deal with reservations at a restaurant packed full of other couples with a limited overpriced menu (or so I’ve been told).

If I did have a date, I would be more inclined to whip up a romantic meal for two at home because it’s what I enjoy doing. Plus I’m good at what I do, so no lackluster dinner here.

With Valentine’s Day coming up, I’m guessing you’re here looking at recipes to make for your other half. Or maybe you’re single and want to treat yourself because wallowing all day with a lonely storm cloud is no fun (I’ve been there. It’s much more fun to indulge than to self pity).

This year I’ll be spending the day with Mr. J who will happily be chowing down on his usual can of tuna. I’ll personally be chowing down on a bowl of Spaghetti Carbonara For Two.

Pasta Carbonara is a spaghetti dish with bacon and a creamy sauce made from eggs and cheese. I think of it as romantic because spaghetti is often associated with that famous kiss scene from The Lady and The Tramp.

Plus it’s rich and full of bacon, so it’s not a meal you (should) eat often. Serve it with a glass of white wine, and you’re well on your way to date night at home.

To make spaghetti carbonara, you fry up some bacon with onion and garlic while you wait for the pasta to cook. Once the noodles are done, toss them in the bacon mixture then stir in the egg and cheese. Garnish with black pepper and parsley then serve before your cat lays on it (true story and I don’t even know where to begin explaining that one).

In an ideal world, it’s important to use the best ingredients because spaghetti carbonara has a straight-forward ingredient list. For example, you’d want to use fresh Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese and not grated cheese from the green can.

However, I made this several times in college with the green can cheese, so if your budget is tight, no judgment here. The most important part is spending the evening together.

To make the carbonara sauce, you whisk together a whole egg with grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese. Then you gently and quickly toss it with the spaghetti. The residual heat is enough to cook the raw egg, but you must work quickly before it accidentally scrambles.

The egg makes the sauce creamy without using heavy whipping cream. When I first learned how to make this dish, I did use cream, which is apparently frowned upon in the culinary world.

For dessert, you can follow it up with my Small Chocolate Cake For Two or customize a Cheesecake For Two.

Other Romantic Meals For Two At Home

• Shrimp Scampi Skillet Pizza – Make pizza night more special by adding shrimp scampi on top.
• Steamed Clams with Pan Roasted Tomatoes – If serving clams doesn’t say “I love you,” nothing will.
• Cornish Hen with Homemade Classic Stuffing – It’s like Thanksgiving you can enjoy all year round without a freezer full of leftovers.